“I’m offended that you would say those things about me.” Offended? As if he knew I was confused, he repeated himself with more emphasis on the word ‘offended’. My shift was over and I was trying to go home when I was suddenly being lectured about how much this person and their family does to supposedly combat racism. A clear sign of white fragility from one of the last people I expected it from. Read More »


The past few months have overall been a struggle. I don’t think I’ve ever felt that stuck in my life. Between societal drama and personal situations, I definitely derailed. But life is finally starting to chug back along, and I’m seeing the light at the end of this tunnel. Read More »


I’m sure many people would agree, 2020 has been the craziest time warp I’ve ever lived. The hours in my days move so incredibly slow, yet all the days blend together and I feel like time is moving too fast. It’s crazy to think that it has been over two weeks since my last post. So much for posting once a week. Although, Read More »

A new decade.

“What a weird few years 2020 has been,” said the Nia (I said it). It almost feels like we’ve already lived an entire decade and it’s not even May. What a wild time to be alive. I didn’t realize how long it had been since I last wrote. I also didn’t really even know what day it was. At least not until Sunday. Read More »